SHAR | Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
How Shar planned her romantic and intimate private villa destination wedding in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico…our 1st villa DESTIBRIDE!
“You only get one life - let’s live it to the fullest, let’s do what our heart desires...and figure everything out as you go!”
Photos courtesy of CCphotoloscabos
EPISODE 46
How Shar Planned Her Destination Wedding in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!
This interview with DESTIBRIDE Shar was LIKE NO OTHER because she and her husband Deji’s destination wedding was at a beautiful private villa in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!!!! Something I love about Shar (other than her GORGEOUS skin) is that she was a great mix of laid-back and serious when it came to her destination wedding planning. This Villa La Roca destination wedding was sooo amazing and Shar shared all the deets so you already know - I can't wait to hear how much you love it!
Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:
We chatted about:
💕 How they met
💕 A dreamy surprise proposal in Paris!
💕 Why they decided to have a destination wedding
💕 Dealing with family when deciding to “go destination”
💕Planning and saving money TOGETHER
💕How they chose their destination wedding venue
💕How they picked their destination wedding vendors - makeup, photographer, etc.
💕 Setting boundaries
💕Her Villa La Roca Wedding Review
💕and so much more!
Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding
in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico?
Click Play and find out how Shar planned her destination wedding
at Villa La Roca in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!
Enjoy!
WATCH SHAR’S INTERVIEW!
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THANK YOU TO THIS EPISODE’S SPONSOR: APPYCOUPLE
DestiCouple: Shar + Deji Olasimbo
Destination Wedding Date: May 20, 2018
City & Country: Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
Venue: Villa La Roca
Host Resorts: Riu Santa Fe (affordable option) The Cape (luxury option)
Wedding Budget: $20,000
Number of Guests: 75
Bridal Party: None
THE OLASIMBOS
Engagement Length: 17 Months
Age: Bride, 29 / Groom, 39
Hometown: Los Angeles, CA
THE STORY
We originally wanted to elope but after a ton of pushback from our parents, we decided on a closer destination so that we can have everyone there. We had no bridal party (best decision ever) and the day literally went perfect!
xx, DESTIBRIDE SHAR
THE PROPOSAL
Fun Fact: Deji planned a surprise proposal in Paris and Shar posted a video all about it on her YouTube channel!
THE BRIDE
Bride’s Dress: Vivienne Atelier
Bride’s Shoes: Nordstrom
Bride’s Jewelry: Macy’s
Hair: @hairgoalsby_lo
Makeup: Bride
#IMADESTI
DESTIBRIDE FUN FACTS:
Favorite DESTI Episode: Desti Porsha [Episode 14]
Favorite Cocktail: Cali Girl Margarita
Shar’s Travel Company: Brown Girls Trippin
Shar’s YouTube Channel: SharDavisXo
Follow her on Instagram @shardavisxo
THE GROOM
Groom’s Attire: Maison Valentino
#DESTIGROOM FUN FACT:
Favorite Cocktail: Southern Gentlemen Old Fashioned
THE WEDDING
Planning: Yadira @ Villa La Roca
Styling & decor: Yadira @ Villa La Roca
Photography: CCphotoloscabos
Videography: Celestus Weddings
Paper Invitations + Details: Evite
Wedding Video courtesy of Celestus Weddings
LINKS MENTIONED:
Omi’s favorite wedding website company: Appy Couple
The Olasimbo’s post-wedding resort: - Corazón Cabo Resort & Spa (Formerly Cabo Villas Resort)
Shar’s favorite DESTIBRIDE Episode: Desti Porsha [Episode 14]
Shar’s Travel Company: Brown Girls Trippin
Shar’s YouTube Channel: SharDavisXo
Follow her on Instagram @shardavisxo
Join the DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY
Everything Else: See all Pink Links above!
SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR: APPY COUPLE
DESTIFACT:
We used Appy Couple for our wedding and there’s a complete walkthrough in the DESTILOVERS Community!
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR DESTIPARTNER
APPYCOUPLE FOR SPONSORING THE SHOW!
APPY COUPLE is a modern wedding website and interactive app that practically builds itself and lets you manage and share important details of your destination wedding with ease and style. And let’s be honest, Desti weddings require more care and details and Appy Couple is the perfect choice if you want to Invite and Impress!
SEE MY APPY COUPLE WEBSITE!
I GAVE A COMPLETE WALKTHROUGH OF MY WEDDING WEBSITE (with tips of course!)IN A RECENT DESTIHOUR in the DESTILOVERS Community too!
find out more information about my favorite wedding website + app for destination weddings and let me know if you have any questions!
xx, Omi
Thank You Shar!
We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek
"behind your veil" of destination wedding planning
in beautiful Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!
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All Things Destination Weddings w/ Sarah Kline @ Time for Travel
Let’s just talk all things destination weddings! There’s so much you need to know…guests, vendors, travel agents, expectations, experiences - so let’s dig in!
“There’s no reason to NOT use a travel agent”
*This episode is sponsored by TIME FOR TRAVEL
EPISODE 39
All Things Destination Weddings
w/ Sarah Kline of Time for Travel
HEY DESTIS + BRIDEFRIENDS!
What do all couples need to know about destination wedding planning? TODAY you're gonna find out❣️ Catching up with #DESTIPRO Sarah Kline of Time for Travel is always a blast and this interview is no exception!
You may know her from Episode 6 or the Coronavirus Catchups Part 1, 2, or 3 or you may not know her at all… either way, you’re in for a treat!
THIS EPISODE WILL HELP ALL BRIDEFRIENDS!
Whether you’re a newbie and have no idea what you're doing yet orrr you're smack dab in the middle of planning your wedding - Sarah’s sharing her best advice! I threw as many Qs as I could @ Sarah and she gave me allll the As...Here are just a little bit of what we covered…
DESTINATION WEDDING QUESTIONS + TOPICS:
💕 Pros and cons of destination weddings
💕 How do you know if a destination wedding is for you?
💕 Setting expectations for you, your guests, and vendors
💕 What is the value of a destination wedding travel agent vs. vacation travel agent?
💕 Who do you invite and who will really attend your destination wedding?
💕Achieving your vision!
💕 Maximizing your destination
💕 Hosting and guest experience tips
💕 Current favorite resort + destination
💕 Stories about real clients - you need to learn from these couples!!!
💕and so much more!
Soooo…what do ALL DESTICOUPLES
need to know about destination wedding planning?
Click Play and find out!
Enjoy!
xx, Omi
WATCH SARAH’S INTERVIEW!
YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!
LINKS!
Episode 6 - Sarah’s 1st interview on the DESTI Guide to Destination Weddings - CLICK HERE!
CONTACT Sarah @ TimeforTravelLtd.com - CLICK HERE!
Follow Sarah on Instagram - CLICK HERE!
Time for Travel’s DESTIPARTNER Page here on DESTILAND - CLICK HERE!
Join the DESTILOVERS Community for our exclusive content including LIVE Q+As w/ Sarah! - CLICK HERE!
SARAH’S PAST EPISODES
Episode 6
Sarah’s 1st interview on the DESTI Guide to Destination Weddings
COVID-19 Q+A Part 1
COVID DESTINATION WEDDING LIVE Q+A: Postponing, Airlines, Contracts, Venues + All! ∙ DESTI 29
COVID-19 Q+A Part 2
Part 2 was recorded Live in the DESTILOVERS Community as DESTIHOUR 10.
Join to watch the replay!
COVID-19 Q+A Part 3
CORONAVIRUS DESTINATION WEDDING LIVE Q+A | SEPTEMBER 2020 UPDATE! ∙ DESTI 30
THANKS FOR
ANOTHER GREAT EPISODE SARAH!
Can’t wait to get you back on the show for MORE destination wedding planning and travel tips!
SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR: TIME FOR TRAVEL
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR DESTIPARTNER
TIME FOR TRAVEL FOR SPONSORING THE SHOW!
TIME FOR TRAVEL is a team of FREE Destination Wedding + Honeymoon Specialists owned by Sarah Kline who is known for saying:
“We have personally visited each venue we recommend,
so we know which venue is a Perfect Match for you and your guests!”
An AMAZING choice for any Caribbean, Mexico, South Pacific or Hawaii destination wedding or honeymoon, and with over 20 years of experience helping couples fulfill their dreams, Sarah and her team will make your DESTI wedding and honeymoon exactly what you've dreamed of!
More Destination Wedding Questions?
Don’t be shy, Bridefriend! - reach out to Time for Travel and see how they can help you plan your DESTI Wedding!
And tell them Your best DESTI Bridefriend Omi sent you and they’ll take EXTRA SPECIAL care of you ;)
xx, Omi
Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!
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100 Facts About Our Destination Wedding - MEET MY HUBBY!
Alllll about our destination wedding - EVERY. SINGLE. DETAIL…Hope you’re ready!
*This episode is sponsored by the DESTILOVERS Community!
EPISODE 36
100 Facts About Our Destination Wedding - MEET MY HUBBY!
HEY DESTIS + BRIDEFRIENDS!
I’m soooo excited to introduce you all to my husband!!!
This man has patiently awaited this day and when I say he delivered…he deliverT (yes, with the T!)
I knew I wanted to have him on, but had to figure out the perfect episode for him and then it clicked!
Over the years I’ve received many questions about my destination wedding and I’ve answered them here and there, but they’ve never been in one place - and I was certain I didn’t remember EVERY SINGLE DETAIL…
What did we do?
I figured that the absolute best way to answer your questions AND FINALLY introduce you all to my most favorites person in the world was with this episode! I had to have fun with it and y’all know I like my numbers soooo…
Today we’re sharing 100 facts about our destination wedding with y’all in hopes that you can glean as much information for your own destination wedding planning journey - and get to know us better too!
And it was so much fun!
In fact - it was so much fun, we recorded for much longer than 1 episode can hold. Soooo this will be a multi-part episode. How many parts? All I can tell you is to make sure you subscribe and stay tuned because we go deeper…and deeper…and deeper!
I really don’t think we left any detail untouched, BUT if you have any questions or would like me to elaborate more in another video, drop ‘em in the comments!
And while you’re at it, go ahead and hit that SUBSCRIBE to my channel - I’m back doing weekly videos and if this is helpful for you, tap that thumbs up too!
And if you know of any other couples planning a destination wedding that need this, be a Bridefriend and share this post with them! They’ll thank you for sure!
Ready…let’s goooooo…..
Soooo…what are
100 Facts About Our Destination Wedding?
Click Play and find out!
Enjoy!
xx, Omi
WATCH PART 1 !
WATCH PART 2!
WATCH PART 3!
YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!
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STAY TUNED FOR SHOW NOTES, PHOTOS + DETAILS!
I’ll update this post as so!on ASAP
SHOUT OUT TO THE DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY!
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO THE DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY!
If you haven’t joined, you should stop missing out NEOW!
xx, Omi
Thank You Che!
To My Husband: I love you soooo very much and appreciate you taking the time for this episode and agreeing to be an absolute open book about our wedding! Your support means the world to me and makes me feel like I can do anything.
You’re my most favoritest person in the world and I’m looking forward to having you BACK on the show!
I couldn’t have done ANY of this without you My Love!
RECAP OF OUR 100 DESTINATION WEDDING FACTS:
FYI: I’ll be rewatching this video soon and will update this post with photos + links that we mentioned!
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LINKS
*OUR MINIBOOK CARD INVITATIONS @ MINTED *
We chose and customized the Sweet Confetti Style, but really all of them can be customized.
Drop a comment below if you’d like me to do a tutorial.
BUDGETING BLOG POST ON BLACKDESTI BLOG
The “Omi's BIGGEST Mistakes! (And How to Avoid Them)” Episode
Omi’s Wedding Website + App: AppyCouple
ON BLACKDESTI.COM : Omi’s 200 Day Destination Wedding Countdown Diary
MORE COMING Y’ALL!
If there’s anything specific you need, drop a comment or DM me on IG @desti.land and let me know.
We covered a lot!
So that’s it!
I hope our facts were helpful for you!
Thanks for hangin’ out with us!
I’ll see you next week and until then…
I’m wishing you all the best week of your lives and reminding you
to have the time of your life,
planning the best days of your life!
Bye guys!!!
xx, Omi
Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!
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DESTI Guide to Destination Weddings!
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Omi's BIGGEST Mistakes! (And How to Avoid Them)
PLEASE learn from my mistakes Brideriends…it’s storytime!
*This episode is sponsored by the DESTILOVERS Community!
EPISODE 34
My BIGGEST Destination Wedding Mistakes! (And How to Avoid Them)
HEY DESTIS + BRIDEFRIENDS!
Guess what y’all…My destination wedding wasn’t perfect!
SURPRISE!!!!
annnnd… NO wedding - destination wedding or not will be perfect.
Okay, I know that probably sounds crazy to say, but I’m coming on today in this super impromptu episode to share my biggest mistakes with y’all!
I have a DESTIBRIDE interview for you next week with Laura, and I’ve made the game time decision to release her interview for Valentine’s Day Weekend so today it’s just you + me! Let’s have a BlackDesti Chat - it’s been a while!
Okay? Okay! So...
As you know, I share my experiences and wedding photos and tips and all the prettiness and I get a lot of great compliments and comments about our destination wedding and I truly appreciate them all!
And this week on the @DESTI.LAND Instagram page I brought back the HMHU 2021 polls and the questions have been soooo bomb! You all are showing out! And I’m so grateful to have you all in the DESTILOVERS Community, and showing up in the live calls and allll the things. It really means a lot to me to have you all join me, share your experiences and also trust me to help you along your DESTIWedding journeys!
I DO NOT TAKE this lightly Bridefriends! And I’m looking forward to answering alllllll of your questions and getting to know you better!
Btw, if you’re brand new and have no idea what I’m talking about when I say DESTILOVERS - make sure you join! It’s our free Community and is an extension of the DESTI Guide to Destination Weddings show!
AND this month’s BRIDEFRIEND BRUNCH is tomorrow, so there’s still time to RSVP depending on when you’re here…
Anyway… back to my imperfect wedding! Where was I ???
Oh yeah, HMHU - this week there was A LOT of use of the word PERFECT when it came to my wedding and I get messages from DESTIBRIDES here and there talking about how they’re worried their wedding won’t be perfect and there’s a lot of fear and anxiety - especially right now with COVID going on...
SO I told y’all that I’m following my vibes more in 2021 so here I am!
I feel compelled to shift things up and come on with y’all today with a bit of vulnerability because y’all need to understand that mistakes were made. PHOTOS ARE SNAPSHOTS - I know we know this so this is just a reminder.
I started the BlackDesti blog, podcast, YouTube channel, allll of this because I’m on a mission to help as many of you as possible know that it is possible to plan a destination wedding. Sharing my experiences and others is my way of not just showing you how to plan a destination wedding, but more importantly - letting you know that you are not alone and YOU CAN DO THIS BRIDEFRIENDS!
And I never want you to think that any of these weddings - including my own was perfect. Even if we said it was perfect - that means perfect FOR US and yours will be perfect FOR YOU!
Soooo today I’m sharing my biggest destination wedding planning mistakes with y’all in hopes that you can AVOID where possible and feel seen if you’ve done the same!
If you have any questions or would like me to elaborate more in another video, drop ‘em in the comments!
And while you’re at it, go ahead and hit that SUBSCRIBE to my channel - I’m back doing weekly videos and if this is helpful for you, tap that thumbs up too!
And if you know of any other couples planning a destination wedding that need this, be a Bridefriend and share this post with them! They’ll thank you for sure!
Ready…let’s goooooo…..
Soooo…what were my biggest destination wedding planning mistakes
AND how can you avoid them?
Click Play and find out!
Enjoy!
xx, Omi
YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!
SHOUT OUT TO THE DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY!
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO THE DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY!
If you haven’t joined, you should stop missing out NEOW!
xx, Omi
DISCLAIMER!
Keep in mind that MISTAKES DON’T NECESSARILY MEAN REGRETS either. Sometimes you can make a mistake that actually needed to happen or even works out for the better. For some of these I’m actually glad that they happened - even if I didn’t feel that was at the time. Opportunities for growth, boundaries and conversations and decisions that needed to happen can really come from your mistakes!
I will give that disclaimer.
RECAP OF MY DESTINATION WEDDING MISTAKES:
FYI: I’ll be rewatching this video on Monday and will update this post with photos + links that I mentioned!
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I WAS TOO HONEST
I WAS TOO EMOTIONAL
I WASN’T READY FOR PLAN B
WE MISSED A CONTRACT DETAIL
WE SHOULD’VE PAID CLOSER ATTENTION TO GUEST LIST
OUR BUDGET GOT OUT OF CONTROL
WE REALLY MISS 1 IMPORTANT PHOTO
I PHYSICALLY FORGOT MYSELF
I NEGLECTED AN IMPORTANT OUTFIT
WE SHOULD’VE PREPPED WELCOME GIFTS
I WASN’T FLEXIBLE ENOUGH
WE UNDERESTIMATED TIME
I OVERPACKED
WE DIDN’T MEET ALL VENDORS
THE VIBE NEEDED MORE ATTENTION
So that’s it!
I hope my mistakes were helpful for you! I would never want to deter you from having a destination wedding - so know that wasn’t my intention.
Thanks for hangin’ out with me!
Again, drop any questions or video ideas in the comments. And while you’re at it introduce yourself gimme that #IMADESTI and let me know when and where you’re getting married!
I’ll see you next week with DESTIBRIDE Laura’s interview and until then…
I’m wishing you all the best week of your lives and reminding you
to have the time of your life,
planning the best days of your life!
Bye guys!!!
xx, Omi
Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!
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Jack Benoff, Vacationeeze
It’s Destination Wedding Resort Deepdive Time! Whether you’ve already chosen your resort or have absolutely positively no friggin’ idea WHERE to start when choosing your destination wedding resort - this is for you!
“ ...have the wedding you want, not the one the wedding planner @ the resort wants to sell you!”
*This episode is sponsored by VACATIONEEZE
EPISODE 32
The
Destination Weddings Resort
Deepdive Episode
HEY DESTIS + BRIDEFRIENDS!
I’m SO happy to share this interview with Travel DESTIPRO Jack Benoff of VACATIONEEZE with you!
FINALLY…AN EPISODE ALL ABOUT RESORTS - YAYYY!!!
Jack has been involved in the travel and wedding industries for over 20 years and was part of the founding team of THE KNOT! He sits on the board of many of your favorite resort brands and even ran one of the large honeymoon and destination companies. His family has been helping people plan their travels since 1978. Jack travels 1-2 weeks a month to various destinations and has been featured on many sites as a destination wedding specialist.
There’s no denying that Jack has a wealth of destination wedding planning advice to share with us! And in this interview, we dug into the nitty gritty of resorts.
Whether you’ve already chosen your resort or have absolutely positively no friggin’ idea WHERE to start when choosing your destination wedding resort - this episode is for you!
Prepare to get a glimpse behind the scenes from the perspective of a well-traveled destination wedding travel agent!
I dug deep with my Q’s and Jack was not shy in his A’s...Here are just a few things we discussed…
DESTINATION WEDDING QUESTIONS + TOPICS:
💕How to choose a destination wedding resort!
💕Which destinations are on his preferred list - and why!
💕 Reviews of SPECIFIC destination wedding resort brands!
💕Questions you must ask about your wedding - whether already booked or not!
💕 What does a destination wedding [great] travel agent do?
💕Destination wedding resorts with the best food!
💕Best adult-only destination wedding resorts!
💕Combining adult-only and family-friendly experiences into ONE wedding!
💕Must-knows about all-inclusive resort wedding packages!
💕Why some resorts do the things that they do…he has the behind-the-scenes view too
💕and so much more!
Soooo…what do ALL DESTICOUPLES need to know about destination wedding resorts?
Click Play and find out!
Enjoy!
xx, Omi
WATCH JACK’S INTERVIEW!
YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!
LINKS!
Jack’s YouTube Channel - CLICK HERE!
CONTACT JACK @ destinationweddingeeze.com - CLICK HERE!
Vacationeeze’s DESTIPARTNER Page here on DESTILAND: CLICK HERE!
Jack’s Rishtey Destinations Website: CLICK HERE!
THANKS FOR EVERYTHING JACK!
Can’t wait to get you back on the show for MORE destination wedding planning and travel tips!
SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR: VACATIONEEZE
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR DESTIPARTNER VACATIONEEZE FOR SPONSORING THE SHOW!
VACATIONEEZE is a travel and destination wedding planning company that’s been in the game for quite a while! Owned by a husband + wife duo, Jack + Sharon Benoff, they specialize in customized destination weddings and are proud to let each couple know that,
“We have personally visited each venue we recommend,
so we know which venue is a Perfect Match for you and your guests!”
After meeting Jack and speaking to his gushing clients and colleagues, I couldn’t wait to partner up with Vacationeeze and make some destination wedding magic for you all!
Have Destination Wedding Questions?
Don’t be shy, Bridefriend! - reach out and see how VACATIONEEZE can help you plan your DESTI Wedding!
And tell them Your best DESTI Bridefriend Omi sent you and they’ll take EXTRA SPECIAL care of you ;)
xx, Omi
Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!
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ALEAH | Playa Mujeres, Mexico
How Aleah planned her 104 guest destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres Resort in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!
“It was perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect!”
*Photos courtesy of Mayan Riviera Photography
EPISODE 31
How Aleah Planned Her Destination Wedding in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!
This interview with DESTIBRIDE Aleah was EVERYTHING! Aleah and her husband brought 104 guests to witness their destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres Resort in Playa Mujeres, Mexico and she tells us alll about how they did it together! Aleah shared so much destination wedding planning advice with us - I know you’re gonna love it!
Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:
We chatted about:
💕How they met
💕Her proposal story
💕Why they decided to have a destination wedding
💕Picking their date
💕Planning and saving money TOGETHER
💕How they chose their destination wedding venue
💕How they picked their destination wedding vendors - makeup, photographer, etc.
💕Her Dreams Playa Mujeres Review
💕and so much more!
Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding in Playa Mujeres, Mexico?
Click Play and find out how Aleah planned her destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!
Enjoy!
WATCH ALEAH’S INTERVIEW!
YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!
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DestiCouple: Aleah + Terrance Jordan
Destination Wedding Date: November 10, 2019
City & Country: Playa Mujeres, Mexico
Venue: Dreams Playa Mujeres (Central Garden)
Wedding Budget: $30,000
(originally budgeted for $20,000 - see interview for explanation)
Number of Guests: 104
Bridal Party: 8 Bridesmaids + 8 Groomsmen
THE JORDANS
Engagement Length: 17 Months
Age: Bride, 32 / Groom, 35
Occupations: Bride: Consumer Marketing Consultant / Groom: Psychologist
Hometown: Elkhart, IN -- currently residing in Atlanta, GA
THE BRIDE
Bride’s Dress: Morilee
Bride’s Shoes: Jeffery Campbell Block Heels
Bride’s Jewelry: Etsy + Elegant Designs, Elkhart, IN
Hair & Makeup: Hair - Cousin and Makeup - Sara Tamargo and Team
#IMADESTI
DESTIBRIDE FUN FACTS:
Aleah’s nickname is Laya
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Cocktail: Champagne
Book Recommendation: The Four Agreements
Laya is also a lifestyle blogger and has a great wedding section with great destination wedding tips ! Find her blog @ TheLayaB.com and follow her on Instagram @thelayab_
THE WEDDING
Planning: Bride + Resort
Styling & decor: Bride (Shout out to Mother of Bride + Homegirl Chanel)
Photography: Mayan Riviera Photography
Florals: Resort (Bride Provided Pictures)
DJ: Ceremony - Resort / Reception - DJ Carver
Paper Invitations + Details: Etsy and Minted
Cake + Catering: Resort
Wedding Website: Riley & Grey
Etsy Vendors:
Welcome Bags: @WeddingUkraine Etsy
Fans at ceremony: @pbpaperie Etsy
Getting ready shirts: @WhatALuvely Etsy
Champagne place cards @RagandRoots Etsy
Hair comb: @GlamourBrideUSA Etsy
Cake topper: @Rawkrft Etsy
Other Miscellaneous Vendors:
Tumblers: Save a Cup + Sticker Mule
Drink Floaties: DH Gate
Advil/Pepto: Dollar Dayz
LINKS MENTIONED:
Omi’s favorite wedding posts on Aleah’s LayaB blog:
The Guest List: HOW TO BUILD YOUR WEDDING GUEST LIST WITH LESS STRESS
Shopping for your dress: HOW TO SHOP FOR YOUR WEDDING DRESS WITHOUT THE STRESS
Everything Else: See all Pink Links above!
Thank You Laya!
We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek "behind your veil" of destination wedding planning in the beautiful Playa Mujeres, Mexico!
Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!
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Joyce Mnguni, Dream Weddings Riviera Maya
REALITY CHECKS w/ destination wedding planner, Joyce! I always say “everyone needs a destination wedding planner”, today I was challenged on that statement. Retraction maybe?
“Brides know when they need a planner...”
*Omi’s Wedding Photos courtesy of Shenko Photography
REALITY CHECKS
From My Destination Wedding Planner!
Q+A, Tips, Advice, Misconceptions,
Do’s, Don’ts & Warnings
Hey Destis + Bridefriends! I’m SO happy to share this interview with DESTIPRO Joyce Mnguni of Dream Weddings Riviera Maya with you!
I FINALLY got my very own Destination Wedding Planner on the show!
Joyce is truly magical and did an AMAZING job with our Desti wedding, but rather than just go on and on about my wedding, we decided to do a REAL DEAL Q+A to make sure that every Desti Bride is prepared to find and work with their planner and also understands the destination wedding planning process as a whole - no matter WHERE in the world you’re planning your wedding.
Joyce has worked with hundreds of couples and has a wealth of destination wedding planning advice to share with us! Prepare to get a glimpse behind the scenes from the perspective of a well-seasoned destination wedding planner!
I dug deep with my Q’s and Joyce was not shy in her A’s...Here are just a few things we discussed…
DESTINATION WEDDING QUESTIONS + TOPICS:
💕How to get what you want from your wedding planner (including crazy requests)!
💕Misconceptions about destination weddings - On-resort + Off-resort!
💕 The great civil vs. symbolic ceremony debate!
💕 Does EVERY couple need a destination wedding planner?
💕How to get married LEGALLY in Riviera Maya, Mexico!
💕Safety concerns in Mexico!
💕Must-knows about all-inclusive resort wedding packages!
💕 What can you do if you can’t afford a destination wedding planner?
💕 How to become a destination wedding planner!
💕so much more!
Soooo…what do ALL brides need to know about destination wedding planners?
Click Play and find out!
I Interviewed My Destination Wedding Planner...Here’s Her Side of The Story…
Enjoy!
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THANKS FOR EVERYTHING JOYCE!
Can’t wait to get you back on the show for MORE destination wedding planning tips!
Joyce’s photos courtesy of @cocostudiobymoni
Joyce Mnguni and her team at Dream Weddings Riviera Maya are absolutely AMAZING!
Joyce handled the planning of our own Desti Wedding Weekend and truly went above and beyond! We were so happy about our decision to choose DWRM! You can reach Joyce at DreamWeddingsRivieraMaya.com and follow her on Instagram @dreamweddingsrivieramaya
Tell her DESTI Omi sent you!
xx, Omi
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TRESSA | Cancun, Mexico
You’re not gonna regret it! No truer words have ever been spoken!
*Photos courtesy of Moments That Matter Photography
How Tressa Planned Her Destination Wedding in Cancun, Mexico!
Our 1st VIDEO interview is with this beautiful bride - Tressa - a Cancun, Mexico Desti! Tressa was married at the Moon Palace Resort in Cancun, Mexico and traveled w/ her family (including her 2yr old daughter) who lives in Detroit, Michigan and gives us her BEST destination wedding planning advice and tips!
Tressa is a Bridefriend O.G. and we go waaayyy back! Well, we’ve never actually met before this interview...but - she’s a longtime podcast listener and has been super-supporter from the beginning - I’m talking BlackDesti blog beginning! So I am super pumped to be able to share this interview with you all. You will learn something no matter what phase of destination wedding planning you’re in. I asked Tressa how to plan a destination wedding and she spilled all the ☕!
Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:
💕What Bridal Party vs. Bridefriends means to her
💕What made her choose to get married in Mexico?
💕Choosing a destination that they had never been to before - on purpose!
💕An interesting way to send Save the Dates and Invitations
💕Why she decided to plan a destination wedding vs. local wedding
💕Dealing w/ friends and family (a big family!) against the decision to plan a destination wedding
💕Dealing w/ last-minute guest RSVPs
💕Destination Wedding Specific Hair + Makeup tips
💕Shopping for her wedding gown as a plus-size bride
💕Deciding mid-wedding to change her wedding website to AppyCouple
💕How she chose her destination wedding venue
💕Money saving tips
💕How she narrowed down the perfect resort as her destination wedding venue
💕A mini review and her experience @ Moon Palace Resort in Cancun, Mexico
💕so much more!
Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding in Cancun, Mexico?
Click Play and find out how Tressa planned her destination wedding at the Moon Palace Resort & Spa in Cancun, Mexico!
Enjoy!
WATCH PART 1
Watch Tressa’s interview on DESTITV!
WATCH PART 2
DestiCouple: Tressa + Jonathan Galloway
Tressa’s Wedding Details
Destination Wedding Date: September 2, 2017
City & Country: Cancun, Mexico
Venue: Moon Palace Resort & Spa - TripAdvisor Reviews for Moon Palace Resort
Number of Guests: 36
Number of Bridesmaids/Groomsmen: 6 each (12 total)
Total Budget: Budget originally 10,000 ended up around $12,000
Photography: Moments That Matter Photography
Bride’s Dress: Bombshell Bridal Boutique (St. Clair Shores, MI)
Bride’s Shoes: Badgley Mischka - Style: Carver | Similar Style
Bride’s Jewelry: Random costume jewelry store in Troy, MI
Makeup: LePinkie Club (MUA was a bridesmaid)
Styling & decor: Zuniga (resort's preferred vendor)
Flowers: DIY! Hobby Lobby
DJ: Encore Audio & Visual (resort's preferred vendor)
Paper Invitations + Details: WeddingPassports.com
Cake + Catering: Resort | Moon Palace Resort & Spa Cancun, Mexico
Groom’s Attire: Men's Wearhouse
Groom's Accessories: Macy's
Bridesmaids’ Attire: David's Bridal
“💕Don’t forget to check out Tressa’s podcast - TheRealiTea Show! These ladies are hilarious!”
Groomsmen’s Attire: Men's Wearhouse
Tressa’s podcast - TheRealiTea Show!
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Bride’s Robe – https://www.etsy.com/shop/KatieJamesDesigns
Barefoot Sandal – https://www.etsy.com/shop/BeNelipots
💕#DestiNote from Tressa: “This snagged the hell out of the tulle under my dress and ended up breaking; I didn’t think this through when choosing the style of the barefoot sandal!” GREAT TIP! 💕Make sure you test before the wedding!
Caketopper – https://www.etsy.com/shop/HaymadeShop
Labels for Guest Tumblers – https://www.etsy.com/shop/DavetDesigns
Tumblers – https://www.dollartree.com/
Itineraries - https://www.etsy.com/shop/OneEarDesign
MORE PHOTOS!
Thanks Tressa!
We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek "behind your veil" of destination wedding planning in the lovely Cancun, Mexico!
We wish you & Jonathan (& baby girl Jordan) the ABSOLUTE BEST!
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ERICKA | Riviera Maya, Mexico
“He Thanked Me Later.” A fairytale engagement story and destination wedding experience as a wedding planner!
Photography courtesy of Moni & Adri Photography
Today, we have #DestiChat withDesti Bride Ericka - a Riviera Maya, Mexico Desti!
Ericka was married on June 26, 2017 at Azul Fives Resort in Playa del Carmen, Mexico aannndddd she just so happens to be a wedding planner so she gives us alllll kinds of great advice in this one - …and I will say that I kinda wish that I would have had this Desti chat with Ericka BEFORE my destination wedding because she really shares things that I NEVER thought about - but she got married AFTER me - so that would’ve been plain impossible - BUT at least I can pass on the love to my Destis and Bridefriends!
In this episode, we discussed:
· Making the decision to have a destination wedding
· Dealing with people who may not be supportive of your decision to have a destination wedding
· Thinking outside the box for ways to save money while planning a destination wedding
· Packing tips for your destination wedding
· Honeymooning considerations when having a destination wedding
· And more!
Ericka’s interview + more photos are below!
Enjoy!
ERICKA’S INTERVIEW!
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details…details…details!
Photography courtesy of Moni & Adri Photography
The fairytale proposal!!!
MRS. PORTIS:
Thank you sooo very much for being our Bridefriend and sharing your destination wedding story! We wish you and your family (and coming +1😍) the absolute best!
QUOTE OF THE WEEK:
“Almost any decision is better than no decision at all.”
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Desti Porsha's Prep | Paris Engagement + Montego Bay Wedding
Following a ridiculously romantic Parisian engagement, Porsha was married in Montego Bay, Jamaica and gives us the rundown 1-month BEFORE her destination wedding!
All photography courtesy of Pierre Torset - Paris Photographer + Jillian Mitchell Photography - Montego Bay Photographer
How Porsha was ENGAGED in Paris, France + PLANNING Her Destination Wedding in Montego Bay, Jamaica
Following a ridiculously romantic Parisian engagement, Porsha was married in Montego Bay, Jamaica and gives us the rundown during the month BEFORE her Destination Wedding! We talk about everything from venue scouting, budgeting, choosing her vendors, pleasing wedding guests and most importantly - Porsha gives us some positive Desti Empowerment Vibes!
Topics Covered:
💕Her proposal in Paris, France
💕Her 5-day venue scouting tour to find her wedding venue + resort
💕Her favorite resorts + wedding venues in Montego Bay
💕How to choose wedding vendors
💕Great ways to make your guests happy
💕Taking care of YOURSELF as a #DestiBride bride
💕so much more!
Enjoy!
WATCH PORSHA’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!
DestiCouple: Porsha + Terry
Porsha’s Pre-Wedding Details
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Wedding Date: June 24, 2017
Engagement: Paris, France
Wedding Venue: Tryall Club, Montego Bay, Jamaica
Resort: Half-Moon Bay
Photography:
Pierre Torset - Paris Photographer
Jillian Mitchell Photography - Montego Bay Photographer
Florist: Tai Flora
DJ: Eddie - Elite Media
Expected Budget: ~$30-50,000
ADDITIONAL MENTIONS
Porsha went on a 5-day scouting trip to find her wedding venue. Here are her Top 3 Resorts:
Round Hill
Half Moon
Tryall
Quote of the week:
“Can you remember who you were, before the world told you who you should be?
”
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SHARI-ANN | Riviera Nayarit, Mexico
Shari-Ann + Kofi’s tale of trashing the dress, shady videographers and no regrets for their destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico - according to Shari-Ann…
*Photos courtesy of Aurora G Photography
So, our Desti Shari-Ann’s family is from Jamaica and her husband Kofi’s family is from Ghana and they decided to have their destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico which is on the Western coast of Mexico. I’m so happy that Shari-Ann was willing to open up to us and share the wealth and tell us how she planned and infused their different cultures into their wedding. She also has a cautionary tale of photography that we all need to take note of...so before I spill the beans...here you go!
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Quick Details:
DestiCouple: Shari-Ann & Kofi Sasu
Destination Wedding Date: June 25, 2011
City & Country: Riviera Nayarit, Mexico
Venue: Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit
(TripAdvisor Reviews HERE)
Number of Guests: 12
Total Budget: ~$15,000.00
(The original budget was $10,000, but they ended up closer to $15,000)
Listen to find out exactly how Shari-Ann planned their beautiful destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico! You can thank us later!
More Photos!
To see the full photo album of Shari-Ann's Destination Wedding,
see their Real Weddings feature in Munaluchi Bridal Magazine.
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RASHONDA | Riviera Maya, Mexico
Our VERY FIRST Desti Interview! Today we find out how Real Destination Wedding Couple, Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya Mexico! While working full-time…and pregnant!
All Photography courtesy of by Petronella Photography
BEST. INTERVIEW. EVER! Because this is our VERY FIRST Desti Interview!
In today's #DestiBride Interview, we find out how Real Destination Wedding Couple, Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya Mexico!
Rashonda was more than willing to share the wealth and tell us how she planned while working her full-time job…and…PREGNANT!
WATCH RASHONDA’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!
SEE BELOW for more details on how Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya, Mexico!
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Desti:
Rashonda
DestiCouple: Rashonda Ambrose + Maleke Black
Destination Wedding Date: November 19, 2010
City & Country: Riviera Maya, Mexico
Venue: Barcelo Maya
(TripAdvisor Reviews HERE)
Number of Guests: 35-40
Total Budget: ~$16,000.00
Listen to Rashonda's Desti Interview & See the Show Notes Below
for more details on how Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya, Mexico!
Rashonda + Maleke's Destination Wedding Vendors
What She Wore
Bridal Gown: Kleinfelds
Price: $2,000 - $4,000
Bride’s Shoes: Pink Paradox-London
Hair & Makeup: Bride with Nickey from TRAX
Listen to Rashonda's interview to find out where this beautiful wedding dress is NOW!
What They Wore
Rashonda's DestiPros...
...and Everything Else you need to know
Venue: Barcelo Maya
Wedding Planner: Bride & Groom together with Barcelo Maya
Photographer: by Petronella Photography
Caterer: Barcelo Maya
Cake: Barcelo Maya
Florist: Barcelo Maya
Entertainment: Local Mariachi Band
Ceremony Programs: Cherish Paperie
more photos!
To see the full photo album of Rashonda + Maleke's Wedding, see their Real Weddings feature in Munaluchi Bridal Magazine.
Thanks Rashonda!
We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever by giving us a peak behind your veil of destination wedding planning!
And Your family is beautiful!
